This is a topic is really gets under my skin.
Its like putting a team together to play a basketball game and everyone comes to try outs, and then first game; and then some come to the game but don't play. And before you know it your stuck playing the game alone.
The problem is that games are not won alone. Teams win games; not individuals. And as cliche as it is, yet logical, its the wanna-bes who just don't get it. You don't join a team and give up. Doers understand the importance of commitment and know their role within their team. They know that games are won by a balanced attack.